Meant to be a good weekend

on friday i left for illinois to see my family members that i havent seen since my graduation and some of them i havent seen since a year and a half. so we stay the night in a hotel half way there because it takes 5 hours to get there and it was about midnight when we were half way there. the beds were so uncomfortable. so my back hurt the whole weekend. then when we finally went to my grandma (moms mom) the whole family came and we had a family meal and spent very much quality time together. there are about 3 kids that are younger than 3 years old, so it was really loud. then the whole weekend went not the way it was planned. it was my grandpa (dads dad) birthday and because i didnt have a choice in what was going to happen to me at all that weekend, i couldnt even get him a gift or anything. then on sunday all plans changed when i found out that my great grandfather died (moms moms dad) so it was a very emotional time and was very unexpected. so now everyone is here in indiana where he died in Huntington about 20 mins away from home. now everyone will be here for thanksgiving at my house even though it wont be a very good thanksgiving.